Asking the question "How to get my ex girlfriend back" isn't going to make any kind of a difference. Acting on that question, however, will make a difference - a big difference...if you take the right kinds of actions. And that's what this article is about - never again having to ask the question "how to get my girlfriend back".
The most important thing to remember when trying to get your girlfriend back is that there are underlying motives and reasons for why girls take their ex boyfriends back. These reasons are hidden from most people.
All you need is a little guidance on what to do and when to do it. There is an actual recipe. It's nothing "sneaky" or tricky - it's not mind manipulation. But it's very clever and it works virtually every time.
The first thing you need to do is to create some distance between you and your ex girlfriend. Right now, things are pretty far from where they were when you two first started dating. Right now, you're not the man your ex girlfriend fell in love with. If you were, you'd still be together. It's not possible for your ex to desire you until you get closer to the man you were when she was madly in love with you, and there were no issues or incidents.
The first step towards achieving this is to relax and enjoy yourself. After all, isn't that what you did when you two were happy together?
And please remember: No contact means no contact. No e-mails, texts, Facebooking - nothing. No gifts, no flowers, no e-cards...you get the drift. The reason for this is because the way things are now, anything you do will seem desperate to her, and no one likes desperation. It's not an attractive trait. It's a bit like saying "I'm lost without you". And what does she hear? "I'm lost - I have low value". Why? Because you are depending on her to be a full person again.
Once you stop giving away your power, you start gaining her respect again. That's exactly what your ex girlfriend is doing right now - keeping at arm's length. Notice the effect it has on you? You need to do exactly the same thing.
If you try to be "her friend", it will backfire with a vengeance, because it sends her the signal that "well, he still want to be friends - I must have made the right decision". Can you see the slippery slope?
This is by no means a complete "how to get my girlfriend back" manual, but if you take these steps, you will have made big strides towards getting your ex girlfriend back.
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